DJ Ian & me sitting by the pool

bumped into my kinda-neighbour DJ Ian just as i finished my jog so we went to chill by the pool. catch up with each other and our 'happening ' lives.

that idiot thot i got pregnant cos i looked so pudgy!!! still dare to disbelieve me when i claimed the V-word. if i not so tired, would have shoved you into the pool.

Ian Tan has a way of being a listening ear to me as i complain about the affairs of the heart. being a person who is sooo much like me, practical but foolish at heart, he can understand the feeling of knowing the stupidity in something, but going ahead anyway becos it puts a smile on your face even if its only for a while.

part of my complain:

why do guys have to go one biiiiiiiigg round, thru facebook, thru frenz, thru mail box (yes, conventional mail) to intro themselves?

i was at the party/ gym/ gathering for hours, y wait until so much later?

guys who have the boldness to approach get immediate points. cos i know its not easy, i'm loud, i'm blur, and more often then not, i'm surrounded by protective friends.

so Ian asked what kind of guy i liked: (pls take it with a pinch of salt)

• i'm a go getter, so my guy has to top that. he's got to know what he wants and fight for it. if i'm worth it, fight. if not, dont bother starting.
• i'm cheeky, my guy has to top that.
• i'm fit, my guy has to top that.
  
• i trust in the Bible and Christ, my guy has to equal that.